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There are changes in the wind. Some people may be happy, some may be unhappy. Let's go directly to the Talmud to see its laws on some social concerns.
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Rev. Dr. Abraham Cohen is the author of Everyman's Talmud and translator of Sotah and Abodah Zarah for the Soncino Edition of the Talmud. In Everyman's Talmud, Rev. Dr. Cohen writes: "Especially in the early Talmudic period, when the Temple was still standing, the arrangement of marriages was not unattended by romance. There is a record which informs us: 'The Israelites had no happier days than the fifteenth of Ab and the Day of Atonement, when the sons of Jerusalem used to go out dressed in white garments which were borrowed, so as not to put to shame anybody who did not possess his own. The daughters of Jerusalem would go out and dance in the vineyards, crying, 'Young man, raise your eyes and see whom you will choose for your wife. Pay no attention to beauty, but rather to family.'" — Rev. Dr. Cohen (12) A young man must surely have great discipline to put aside the notion of marrying a beautiful girl and focus instead on marrying into a particular family. "… while the man might he trusted not to abuse his power, the woman, if virtuous, would only in the rarest circumstances actually desire a divorce." — Maurice Simon, translator of Tractate Gittin (20) Ruth Bader Ginsburg received the American Jewish Committee Award for Distinguished Jewish American and Israeli Feminists in January 2000 at a ceremony in the Israeli Knesset. (17) "Between 1972 and 1978, Ginsburg argued six cases before the United States Supreme Court involving gender-role stereotyping. She was victorious in five of those cases. She is credited with fundamentally altering the legal and social landscape, creating personal and professional opportunities for women where they previously never existed … In 1993, President Clinton … called Ginsburg 'the Thurgood Marshall of gender equality law.' … Justice Ginsburg is noted to be a moderate-liberal, who has worked toward ending institutionalized discrimination against women." (13) Yet Ginsburg was one of the three Supreme Court judges who attended November 2000 the kosher dinner in the US Supreme Court Building to celebrate the establishment of the National Institute for Judaic Law (NIJL). The stated purpose of the NIJL is to introduce Talmud law into American courts and law schools. It would be surprising if a Supreme Court judge would give blind endorsement to a legal system she knows nothing about. See Sentence and Execution Given that the dinner was attended by three Supreme Court judges, should we understand that at least one third of the Supreme Court is willing to discard the American Bill of Rights in favor of the Talmud's Noahide Laws (see America's New Government Church)? Ruth Bader Ginsburg and her colleagues on the Supreme Court are sworn to uphold the Constitution of the United States. What was she doing, lending her prestige to the NIJL dinner in 2002. And why did she accept the AJC award in January 2000 in Israel's Knesset government? Who owns this woman? The late Virginia Snitow received the American Jewish Committee Award for Distinguished Jewish American and Israeli Feminists in January 2000 at a ceremony in the Israeli Knesset. (17) "In 1979 Virginia received a call for help from Israeli women for funds to pay the rent on the only shelter for abused women in Israel. 'Jewish men don't beat their wives,' said the incredulous Snitow. She soon learned how wrong she was … and a group called US/Israel Women to Women was born … Orthodox women face a different problem in Israel. Although it is ostensibly a secular state, Israeli law is interpreted by one stream of Judaism, the Orthodox. Getting a divorce in Israel is at the discretion of the husband. If the husband denies the divorce, then that ends the discussion. These women who are called agunat, are frequently compelled to remain in abusive situations. Some find refuge in shelters where WTW assists them through court proceedings." (27) It is not at all clear whether Virginia Snitow knew that the issues she sought to change on behalf of women everywhere are close to the heart of Talmudic Judaism. Letty Cottin Pogrebin received the American Jewish Committee Award for Distinguished Jewish American and Israeli Feminists in January 2000 at a ceremony in the Israeli Knesset. (17) "Ms. Pogrebin was born in 1939 in Queens NY. She was raised in an observant Jewish home, and loved to studied Torah and Talmud diligently with her father, even beyond her Bat Mitzvah … Letty had the courage to be both a strong feminist and a strong observant Jewish woman, at a time when most Jewish women in the feminist movement denied their heritage." (13) Being both a feminist and an "observant Jewish woman" would require more than courage. How can Pogrebin reconcile the liberation of women with the Talmud teaching that a woman is "unclean" for two weeks of every month, during which she contaminates everything and everybody she touches (see Talmud Laws of Menstruation)? Given her early education in the Talmud, Pogrebin must know the social burqa worn by Orthodox Jewish women. Where is her voice, warning America of the advancing Jewish Orthodoxy and its contradictions with Woman's Liberation? Francine Klagsbrun received the American Jewish Committee Award for Distinguished Jewish American and Israeli Feminists in January 2000 at a ceremony in the Israeli Knesset. (17) "The phrase tikkun olam, or 'repairing the world,' has become synonymous in Jewish life with acts of social justice, which, for many Jews have come to stand for all of Judaism. … Not that there's anything wrong with social justice. It is certainly a core Jewish value, emphasized in the Bible and at the heart of the message the ancient prophets delivered. But it is not the be-all and end-all of Jewish ethics … Contrary to what might be supposed, the term tikkun olam does not appear in the Bible, not even among the prophetic books. It is first mentioned in the Talmud, in a discussion about divorce, and relates there to upholding order in society." (26) But how educated is Klagsbrun on the social justice of the Talmud? According to the law of the Talmud, a woman can be divorced at any time on the whim of her husband. And if she has a disease or any physical imperfection, she receives no financial settlement. In comparison, a wife cannot initiate divorce proceeding against her husband. A Beth din can order a divorce for only a few circumstances, and those circumstances do not include immorality, unfaithfulness, or cruelty of the husband. See discussion of Kethuboth 77a. Is Klagsbrun working to alert American women to the pitfalls of justice within Judaic law, or does she just not know? Lilly Rivlin co-founded Seder Sisters in 1976, a ceremony that mimics the Passover Seder with substitute words, events, and names chosen to highlight "women's issues." "New York-based writer, activist, and filmmaker Lilly Rivlin (THE TRIBE, SFJFF 1983) records the final years of her parents' marriage revealing a loving and even flirtatious relationship. While this is an expected ending to a conventional marriage where the father has many mistresses and the mother patiently takes the abuse, Lilly probes further to see how this reality affected her and her sister and brother. The film presents a nuanced portrait of an all-American immigrant family where infidelity is hidden and accepted." (11) That description comes from the web page for the "Jewish Film Festival," subtitled "Independent Filmmakers: Looking at Ourselves." Many Jewish women might wish this Jewish introspection went deeper. In Talmud law, infidelity of the husband is not actionable and is not grounds for a wife's complaint or divorce. Nor is cruelty to the wife in any form. However, infidelity of the wife is an offense punishable by strangulation — for both the wife and her lover. Susan Weidman Schneider received the American Jewish Committee Award for Distinguished Jewish American and Israeli Feminists in January 2000 at a ceremony in the Israeli Knesset. (17) Schneider is the founder and editor-in-chief of the non-profit magazine Lilith for Jewish women. In January 2001, Schneider wrote an editorial addressed to the incoming president, George Bush: Schneider quotes the Talmud for the edification of the new president ("The Talmud instructs us not to question the validity of the need of a beggar"), and also urges this: "To govern well you'll need to understand that women in this country face harder, sometimes crueler choices than men do — and more complex than the anti-choice vitriol admits. Women represent one more 'other,' a biologically vulnerable other, whose plight you might try to imagine as you watch over the public weal and ensure that a woman's right to choose is never compromised." — Schneider (15) Biological vulnerability is indeed an woman's issue, but the Talmud does not offer the same solutions as Schneider. For example, the Talmud Sages rule that contraception is not permitted a wife under any circumstances, no matter if a pregnancy would endanger her life. Even abstinence to avoid pregnancy is denied her. The Lord preserveth the simple, they quote. (Yebamoth 12b) To study the Sages' rulings, see Really, Really Kosher Sex How can Schneider endorse the Talmud and still promote a pro-choice agenda? Rabbi Simeon J. Maslin served as served as President of the Central Conference of American Rabbis from 1995-1997. In a 1993 pamphlet, he wrote: "… we must never forget that whether we are Reform, Conservative, Reconstructionist, or Orthodox, we are all an essential part of K'lal Yisrael — the worldwide community of Jewry. All Jews have an obligation to study the traditions that have been entrusted to us and to observe those mitzvot — those sacred and time-hallowed acts — that have meaning for us today and that can ennoble our lives, as well as those of our families and communities." — Rabbi Maslin (8) Rabbi Amy Scheinerman, of Bolton Street Synagogue in Baltimore, Maryland. "For Orthodox Jews, the Hebrew Scriptures are a divinely authored text and therefore every commandment contained therein must be obeyed. The Mishnah and Talmud are considered to have virtually the same status and are called Oral Torah." — Rabbi Scheinerman (5) Rabbi Noson Gurary is the Executor Director of the Hasidic Chabad of Buffalo, New York, and founder of the National Institute for Judaic Law, the purpose of which is to educate American courts and law schools about Judaic law. "'It will be an eye opener for judges, scholars and law students,' he told The Jewish Week. 'Before you know where you're going, you have to know where you came from. And Jewish law is the basis of our legal system in America.'" (14) Rabbi Gurary is also quoted by the Jerusalem Post: "By demonstrating the philosophy of Jewish law and its moral values, we can bring a little beacon of light to this world." (6) You can help in the battle for Truth, Justice, and the American Way! Fight the forces of censorship and suppression of the Talmud, and bring about understanding between peoples of different faiths. 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Rabbi Dr. Isidore Epstein, editor of the Soncino Talmud, states: "Thus the object of the legal system was not to preserve a particular dynasty or a certain form of government, but to establish social righteousness, and to maintain thereby a constant, close, inseparable connection between ethics and law, both flowing from the same Divine source … All laws, regulations and enactments had authority only in so far as they were able to stand the ethical test of the Torah … All laws, regulations and enactments had authority only in so far as they were able to stand the ethical test of the Torah. "Once they passed this test they were no longer regarded as manmade, but became identified with the very law of God. And this it was which made the Jewish communities able to exhibit, even under the most trying circumstance and the most hostile environment, a moral enthusiasm and a passion for social justice in which even enlightened European states have often lamentably failed." (10) | This is the second in a two-part series on Talmud marriage and divorce laws. The first part is Talmud Daughters Become Talmud Wives. (1) We hope this introduction to Talmud divorce laws serves as an entry point for your own research. In Talmud Daughters Become Talmud Wives, Rabbi Dr. Epstein, the editor of the Soncino Talmud, told us that the kethubah — the "deed of marriage settlement" instituted by the Sages — protected a wife against hasty divorce. Given the right of the husband to divorce the wife at will, the Sages felt that the kethubah safeguarded a woman's marital security (see Talmud Daughters Become Talmud Wives: "Protection of the Kethubah"). (Note: In the following Talmud excerpts, we sometimes omit footnotes and non-germane text. Omissions of text are indicated by ellipses (…). The full text and all footnotes are available through the hot links that follow the excerpts, along with the text of the entire tractates. Now, at Come and Hear™, you can judge the Talmud fairly and in context.) ## No Kethubah for Bodily Defects Despite the protection of the kethubah, it is relatively easy for a husband to get rid of a wife without paying. Physical defects can justify her being divorced without receiving kethubah. MISHNAH. … [IF A WOMAN WAS BETROTHED] ON CONDITION THAT SHE HAS NO BODILY DEFECTS, AND SHE WAS FOUND TO HAVE SUCH DEFECTS, HER BETROTHAL IS INVALID. IF HE MARRIED HER WITHOUT MAKING ANY CONDITIONS AND SHE WAS FOUND TO HAVE BODILY DEFECTS, SHE MAY BE DIVORCED WITHOUT A KETHUBAH. ALL DEFECTS WHICH DISQUALIFY PRIESTS (1) DISQUALIFY WOMEN ALSO. (2) — Babylonian Talmud, Tractate Kethuboth 72b Soncino 1961 Edition, pages 453-454 Rev. Dr. Israel W. Slotki, Talmud scholar and translator of this section of the Tractate Kethuboth, amplifies the text with these footnotes: From the Temple service (cf. Lev. XXI, 17ff). From marriage. If such a woman married she may be divorced without a kethubah. — Rev. Dr. Slotki ## Blemishes Big and Small Rev. Dr. Slotki refers us to Leviticus 21:17 for a description of defects which disqualify men from the priesthood, which same defects deprive a wife of her kethubah. For full context, we have begun our excerpt at Leviticus 21:16 and extended it to Leviticus 21:21. And the LORD spake unto Moses, saying, Speak unto Aaron, saying, Whosoever he be of thy seed in their generations that hath any blemish, let him not approach to offer the bread of his God. For whatsoever man he be that hath a blemish, he shall not approach: a blind man, or a lame, or he that hath a flat nose, or any thing superfluous, Or a man that is brokenfooted, or brokenhanded, Or crookbackt, or a dwarf, or that hath a blemish in his eye, or be scurvy, or scabbed, or hath his stones broken; No man that hath a blemish of the seed of Aaron the priest shall come nigh to offer the offerings of the LORD made by fire: he hath a blemish; he shall not come nigh to offer the bread of his God. — Leviticus 21:16-21 The New International Version renders the same passage as follows: The LORD said to Moses, "Say to Aaron: 'For the generations to come none of your descendants who has a defect may come near to offer the food of his God. No man who has any defect may come near: no man who is blind or lame, disfigured or deformed; no man with a crippled foot or hand, or who is hunchbacked or dwarfed, or who has any eye defect, or who has festering or running sores or damaged testicles. No descendant of Aaron the priest who has any defect is to come near to present the offerings made to the LORD by fire. He has a defect; he must not come near to offer the food of his God." — Leviticus 21:16-21 So then, a woman who is hunchbacked, blind, lame, disfigured, deformed, or has a crippled foot or hand or an eye defect … or damaged sexual organs may be divorced without her kethubah. ### — Bad Breath, Perspiration, Moles The Sages go on to discuss this Mishnah in the following Gemara, and expand the legal rulings. Other physical defects that can deny a wife her kethubah include excessive perspiration and bad breath. We have omitted the footnotes in the following. To study them, please follow the link at the end of the excerpt. GEMARA. … ALL DEFECTS WHICH DISQUALIFY etc. A Tanna taught: To these were added [excessive] perspiration, a mole and offensive breath. Do these, then, not cause a disqualification in respect of priests? Surely we have learned, 'The old, the sick and the filthy' and we have also learned, 'These defects whether permanent or transitory, render human beings unfit [for the Temple service]! — R. Jose b. Hanina replied: This is no contradiction. The former refers to perspiration that can be removed; the latter, to perspiration that cannot be removed. R. Ashi said [in reply]: You are pointing out a contradiction between 'perspiration' and 'one who is filthy' [which in fact are not alike, for] there, in the case of priests, it is possible to remove the perspiration by the aid of sour wine, and it is also possible [to remove] an offensive breath by holding pepper in one's mouth and thus performing the Temple service, but in the case of a wife [such devices are for all practical purposes] impossible. What kind of a mole is here meant? If one overgrown with hair, it would cause disqualification in both cases; if one with no hair, [then, again], if it is a large one it causes disqualification in both cases and if it is a small one it causes no disqualification in either; for it was taught: A mole which is overgrown with hair is regarded as a bodily defect; if with no hair it is only deemed to be a bodily defect when large but when small it is no defect; and what is meant by large? R. Simeon b. Gamaliel explained: The size of an Italian issar! — R. Jose the son of R. Hanina said: One which is situated on her forehead. [If it was on] her forehead he must have seen it and acquiesced! — R. Papa replied: It is one that was situated under her bonnet and is sometimes exposed and sometimes not. — Babylonian Talmud, Tractate Kethuboth 75a Soncino 1961 Edition, pages 470-471 ### — Scars from Dog Bites, a Harsh Voice Scars from dog bites and a harsh voice can also trigger the divorce of a wife without her kethubah. GEMARA. … R. Hisda said: I heard the following statement from a great man (And who is he? R. Shila). If a dog bit her and the spot of the bite turned into a scar [such a scar] is considered a bodily defect. R. Hisda further stated: A harsh voice in a woman is a bodily defect; since it is said in Scripture, For sweet is thy voice, and thy countenance is comely. — Babylonian Talmud, Tractate Kethuboth 75a Soncino 1961 Edition, pages 470-471 ### — Breasts Too Far Apart Having breasts too far apart can trigger the divorce of a woman without her kethubah. GEMARA. … R. Nathan of Bira learnt: [The space] of one handbreadth between a woman's breasts. R. Aha the son of Raba intended to explain in the presence of R. Ashi [that this statement meant that '[the space of] a handbreadth' is to [a woman's] advantage, but R. Ashi said to him: This was taught in connection with bodily defects. And what space [is deemed normal]? Abaye replied: [A space of] three fingers. It was taught: R. Nathan said, It is a bodily defect if a woman's breasts are bigger than those of others. By how much? — R. Meyasha the grandson of R. Joshua b. Levi replied in the name of R. Joshua b. Levi: By one handbreadth. Is such a deformity, however, possible? — Yes; for Rabbah b. Bar Hana related, I saw an Arab woman who flung her breasts over her back and nursed her child. — Babylonian Talmud, Tractate Kethuboth 75a Soncino 1961 Edition, pages 471-472 ### — Groom Should Have Inspected The Sages argue about the relative responsibilities of the father and the groom for a bride's imperfections. Some argue he should have had his female relatives inspect the betrothed woman's body in a local bath-house before he made his deal with the father. The woman's body is compared to a "field that was inundated." MISHNAH. IF SHE WAS AFFLICTED WITH BODILY DEFECTS WHILE SHE WAS STILL IN HER FATHER'S HOUSE, HER FATHER MUST PRODUCE PROOF THAT THESE DEFECTS AROSE AFTER SHE HAD BEEN BETROTHED AND [THAT, CONSEQUENTLY, IT WAS THE] HUSBAND'S FIELD THAT WAS INUNDATED. IF SHE CAME UNDER THE AUTHORITY OF HER HUSBAND, THE HUSBAND MUST PRODUCE PROOF THAT THESE DEFECTS WERE UPON HER BEFORE SHE HAD BEEN BETROTHED AND [THAT CONSEQUENTLY] HIS BARGAIN WAS MADE IN ERROR. THIS IS THE RULING OF R. MEIR. THE SAGES, HOWEVER, RULED: THIS APPLIES ONLY TO CONCEALED BODILY DEFECTS; [75b] BUT IN RESPECT OF DEFECTS THAT ARE EXPOSED HE CANNOT ADVANCE ANY VALID PLEA. AND IF THERE WAS A BATH-HOUSE IN THE TOWN HE CANNOT ADVANCE ANY VALID PLEA EVEN AGAINST CONCEALED BODILY DEFECTS, BECAUSE HE [IS ASSUMED TO HAVE HAD HER] EXAMINED BY HIS WOMEN RELATIVES. — Babylonian Talmud, Tractate Kethuboth 75a-75b Soncino 1961 Edition, page 472-472 None of this quite fits into our current concept of prenuptial romance in America. Currently, bride and groom vow to love each other "for better or worse, in sickness and in health." The Talmudic concept might take some getting used to. ## No Kethubah for Behavioral Problems A wife who speaks too loudly inside her own home, who has intercourse with her husband when she is menstruating, who feeds her husband the wrong food or commits other religious-culinary offenses, who goes out with head uncovered, who curses her husband's parents in his presence — these wives may be divorced without a kethubah. MISHNAH. THESE ARE TO BE DIVORCED WITHOUT RECEIVING THEIR KETHUBAH: A WIFE WHO TRANSGRESSES THE LAW OF MOSES OR [ONE WHO TRANSGRESSES] JEWISH PRACTICE. AND WHAT IS [REGARDED AS A WIFE'S TRANSGRESSION AGAINST] THE LAW OF MOSES? FEEDING HER HUSBAND WITH UNTITHED FOOD, HAVING INTERCOURSE WITH HIM DURING THE PERIOD OF HER MENSTRUATION, NOT SETTING APART HER DOUGH OFFERING, OR MAKING VOWS AND NOT FULFILLING THEM. AND WHAT [IS DEEMED TO BE A WIFE'S TRANSGRESSION AGAINST] JEWISH PRACTICE? GOING OUT WITH UNCOVERED HEAD, SPINNING IN THE STREET OR CONVERSING WITH EVERY MAN. ABBA SAUL SAID: [SUCH TRANSGRESSIONS INCLUDE] ALSO THAT OF A WIFE WHO CURSES HER HUSBAND'S PARENTS IN HIS PRESENCE. R. TARFON SAID: ALSO ONE WHO SCREAMS. AND WHO IS REGARDED A SCREAMER? A WOMAN WHOSE VOICE CAN BE HEARD BY HER NEIGHBOURS WHEN SHE SPEAKS INSIDE HER HOUSE. — Babylonian Talmud, Tractate Kethuboth 72a Soncino 1961 Edition, pages 448-449 ## The Screamer The Sages discuss that Mishnah in the following Gemara. What is meant by "one who screams?" GEMARA. … R. TARFON SAID: ALSO ONE WHO SCREAMS. What is meant by a screamer? — Rab Judah replied in the name of Samuel: One who speaks aloud (10) on marital matters. In a Baraitha it was taught: [By screams was meant a wife] whose voice (11) during her intercourse in one court can be heard in another court. But should not this, then, (12) have been taught in the Mishnah (13) among defects? (14) — Clearly we must revert to the original explanation. (15) — Babylonian Talmud, Tractate Kethuboth 72b Soncino 1961 Edition, page 453 Rev. Dr. Israel W. Slotki, Talmud scholar and translator of this section of the Tractate Kethuboth, amplifies the text with these footnotes: Lit., 'makes her voice heard'. Her screams of pain caused by the copulation. Since her screaming is due to a bodily defect. Infra 77a. Of course it should. Such a case in our Mishnah is out of place. That given in the name of Samuel. — Rev. Dr. Slotki So then, Rab Judah is of the opinion that a woman who expresses herself "aloud" on matters that pertain to the family could trigger divorce without kethubah. She is distinguished from the woman who screams in pain during intercourse. That woman is presumed to have a physical defect, and may be divorced without kethubah on that account. For further discussion of such women, see Really, Really, Kosher Sex. ## Divorce and Virtue Tractate Gittin contains the laws of divorce. In his Introduction to the Tractate, Talmud scholar and Talmud translator Maurice Simon states: One more point will probably strike the modern reader — the apparent unfairness of the Talmudic law of divorce towards the woman. The husband can practically at any time get rid of the wife against her will; the wife cannot release herself from the husband against his will except under certain conditions when the Beth din can compel him to give her a Get. This is certainly the theory, but in practice this inequality was, in the view of the Rabbis, more apparent than real. They assumed, and rightly so, that both for a man and a woman married life was under almost any conditions preferable to single, and therefore while the man might he trusted not to abuse his power, the woman, if virtuous, would only in the rarest circumstances actually desire a divorce. — Maurice Simon (20) If Mr. Simon is correct, that "both for a man and a woman married life was under almost any conditions preferable to single," we might expect the divorce law to reflect that parity of interest. Instead, the ability of a man to unilaterally divorce his wife is clearly to his advantage. Mr. Simon infers that only a lack of virtue in a woman would lead her to want a divorce, but that leaves an open question: What would lead a man to want a divorce — and would that indicate personal virtue, or lack thereof? ## Delivery of the Get When a husband wishes to divorce his wife, he must serve her with a document called a Get. The Tractate Gittin enumerates unusual but legitimate methods for delivering the Get. ### — The Get may be delivered by surprise MISHNAH. IF HE SAID TO HER, TAKE THAT BOND, OR IF SHE FOUND IT BEHIND HIM AND READ IT AND IT TURNED OUT TO BE HER GET, IT IS NO GET, UNTIL HE SAYS TO HER, THERE IS YOUR GET. IF HE PUT IT INTO HER HAND WHILE SHE WAS ASLEEP AND WHEN SHE WOKE UP SHE READ IT AND FOUND IT WAS HER GET, IT IS NO GET UNTIL HE SAYS TO HER, THAT IS YOUR GET. — Babylonian Talmud, Tractate Gittin 78a Soncino 1961 Edition, page 374 ### — The Get May Be Delivered Air Mail MISHNAH. IF SHE WAS STANDING ON A ROOF AND HE THREW IT UP TO HER, AS SOON AS IT REACHES THE AIRSPACE OF THE ROOF, SHE IS DIVORCED. IF HE WAS ABOVE AND SHE BELOW AND HE THREW IT TO HER, ONCE IT HAS LEFT THE SPACE OF THE ROOF, EVEN THOUGH [IMMEDIATELY AFTERWARDS] THE WRITING WAS EFFACED1 OR IT WAS BURNT,2 SHE IS DIVORCED. — Babylonian Talmud, Tractate Gittin 79a Soncino 1961 Edition, page 378 ### — A Get May Be Thrown A man may throw the Get at his wife. Depending on where it lands, the couple may or may not be divorced. If it lands nearer to her, they are divorced. If it lands nearer to him, they are not divorced. If it lands half way between them, they are both divorced and not divorced. MISHNAH. IF SHE WAS STANDING ON PUBLIC GROUND AND HE THREW IT TO HER, IF IT LANDS NEARER TO HER SHE IS DIVORCED, BUT IF IT LANDS NEARER TO HIM SHE IS NOT DIVORCED. IF IT LANDS MIDWAY, SHE IS DIVORCED AND NOT DIVORCED. — Babylonian Talmud, Tractate Gittin 78a Soncino 1961 Edition, page 375 In the Gemara, the Sages discuss the possibility of a dog running off with the Get, and the legal implications such an event would have: GEMARA. … R. Eliezer says: Even though it is nearer to her than to him and a dog came and ran off with it, she is not divorced.' She is not divorced, you say? How long is she to go on keeping it? No; what he means to say is this: If it is nearer to her than to him, yet so placed that if a dog came and tried to make off with it he could save it but she could not, she is not divorced. Samuel said to Rab Judah: Shinena, it must be so near that she can stoop down and pick it up, but do you not actually [declare it valid] until it comes into her hand. — Babylonian Talmud, Tractate Gittin 78b Soncino 1961 Edition, page 376 ## Possible Scenario Consider this scenario made possible by Talmud divorce law: The husband notifies his wife that he is divorcing her by throwing the decree at her. The woman retrieves the Get from the ground where it has landed. By the time she can read it and determine its content, her former husband may be returning to his home, where she no longer lives. If she is lucky, or if her husband is feeling generous, she has a kethubah; otherwise he may use any of a dozen loopholes to deny it to her. Any money or property she has found or earned during her marriage now belongs to him. Is this the direction in which American women want to go? ## Beth Din May Enforce Divorce There are some conditions under which a Beth din may force a husband to divorce his wife. These conditions are debatable, and indeed, were hotly debated at the time of the Sages. The first Mishnah of Kethuboth 77a opens the subject. MISHNAH. A MAN IN WHOM BODILY DEFECTS HAVE ARISEN CANNOT BE COMPELLED TO DIVORCE [HIS WIFE]. R. SIMEON B. GAMALIEL SAID: THIS APPLIES ONLY TO MINOR DEFECTS, BUT IN RESPECT OF MAJOR DEFECTS HE CAN BE COMPELLED TO DIVORCE HER. — Babylonian Talmud, Tractate Kethuboth 77a Soncino 1961 Edition, page 481 Now comes a second Mishnah: MISHNAH. THE FOLLOWING ARE COMPELLED TO DIVORCE [THEIR WIVES]: A MAN WHO IS AFFLICTED WITH BOILS, OR HAS A POLYPUS, OR GATHERS [OBJECTIONABLE MATTER] OR IS A COPPERSMITH OR A TANNER, WHETHER THEY WERE [IN SUCH CONDITIONS OR POSITIONS] BEFORE THEY MARRIED OR WHETHER THEY AROSE AFTER THEY HAD MARRIED. AND CONCERNING ALL THESE R. MEIR SAID: ALTHOUGH THE MAN MADE A CONDITION WITH HER [THAT SHE ACQUIESCES IN HIS DEFECTS] SHE MAY NEVERTHELESS PLEAD, 'I THOUGHT I COULD ENDURE HIM, BUT NOW I CANNOT ENDURE HIM.' THE SAGES, HOWEVER, SAID: SHE MUST ENDURE [ANY SUCH PERSON] DESPITE HER WISHES, THE ONLY EXCEPTION BEING A MAN AFFLICTED WITH BOILS, BECAUSE SHE [BY HER INTERCOURSE] WILL ENERVATE HIM. IT ONCE HAPPENED AT ZIDON THAT THERE DIED A TANNER WHO HAD A BROTHER WHO WAS ALSO A TANNER. THE SAGES RULED: SHE MAY SAY, 'I WAS ABLE TO ENDURE YOUR BROTHER BUT I CANNOT ENDURE YOU'. — Babylonian Talmud, Tractate Kethuboth 77a Soncino 1961 Edition, pages 482-483 The Sages explain the meaning of "who gathers" in the following Gemara. The Mishnah refers to a husband who collects dog manure for use in his tanning business. GEMARA. … WHO GATHERS. What [is meant by one] WHO GATHERS? — Rab Judah replied: One who gathers dogs' excrements. An objection was raised: 'One who gathers' means a tanner! — Babylonian Talmud, Tractate Kethuboth 77a Soncino 1961 Edition, page 483 The discussion is continued through to folio 78a. Some of the issues not discussed are immorality of the husband, infidelity of the husband, and cruelty to the wife. Please study the Come and Hear™ hypertext and draw your own conclusions. ## The Suspected Woman Under Talmud law, if a man suspects his wife has been unfaithful but has no hard evidence of her infidelity, the wife may clear herself by submitting to a trial by ordeal. This trial consists of drinking "bitter water." If she is innocent, the drink is harmless; but if she is guilty, it kills her in a horrible fashion. For the trial, the suspected woman (the sotah) is brought to the Temple. The priest asks her how she pleads. If she says, "Guilty" or refuses the trial, she is divorced without her kethubah. MISHNAH. … THE FOLLOWING DO NOT DRINK AND DO NOT RECEIVE THE MARRIAGE SETTLEMENT: SHE WHO SAYS 'I AM UNCLEAN', WHEN WITNESSES CAME [AND TESTIFIED] THAT SHE HAD MISCONDUCTED HERSELF, AND SHE WHO SAYS 'I REFUSE TO DRINK'. — Babylonian Talmud, Tractate Sotah 24a Soncino 1961 Edition, page 119 If she says, "Innocent," the priest strips her to the waist, puts her on public display, and holds her up to public ridicule. She is then given "bitter water" to drink, which consists (allegedly) of Temple dust and water. If the sotah is guilty of infidelity, her belly swells, her face turns green, her eyes protrude, etc., and she dies. See Introduction to the Tractate Sotah. See also Sentence and Execution: "Poisoning With 'Bitter Water'" and Accusation and Trial: "Women Stripped to the Waist And Publicly Displayed." Given the details of this trial by ordeal, we suspect many women would just plead guilty and go away quietly without their kethuboth, regardless of the truth. Accusing one's wife of infidelity appears to be another mechanism at the disposal of a man who wants to get rid of a wife without paying the kethubah. ## Legal Limbo for Wives An article carried by the Jewish Bulletin of Northern California in 2002 tells how the Talmud divorce laws are playing out in contemporary America. As you read, remember that the women who suffer live on American soil. NEW YORK — An international grass-roots organization has won the backing of major Orthodox rabbis and organizations around the world to help ease the plight of women whose husbands refuse them a Jewish divorce. Jews who live according to halachah (Jewish law) require a get to dissolve their marriages. Only a man can give a get, and some husbands withhold them out of vindictiveness or to extort financial or custody settlements. The issue has long-rankled many in the Orthodox world because of the impact on women, some of whom are trying to escape abusive relationships. Women denied gets are forbidden from remarrying or even dating, and are called agunot, which means "chained women." — Jewish Bulletin of Northern California (25) Some husbands use a legal device that enables them to be remarried, while holding their wives in a marital limbo. One of the biggest loopholes that has been used recently to block women from obtaining gets is the heter me'ah rabbonim, which literally means "exception of 100 rabbis." Under the heter, a man who obtains 100 signatures from rabbis can withhold a get from his wife, but still remarry. Initially intended to be used when a wife is incapacitated, the practice has been widely abused in recent years, Klein said. "There are people who are selling heter meah rabbonim and women who are not being given the right of getting this get." People have been known to obtain the signatures by going to yeshivas in Israel, where no one knows the parties involved, and misleading young rabbis into believing the heter is justified. "The bottom line is they're keeping a wife chained as an agunah while freeing the husband," Klein said. — Jewish Bulletin of Northern California (25) Why don't these women, these agunot, go to an American court to settle the question? Because these women are Orthodox Jews, and they are using rabbinical courts to settle their legal disputes. They are living on American soil, but not under American law. See The Talmud Lives for Jews; they may be excommunicated if they take their husbands to Gentile court. ## Talmud Divorce in Israel In Israel, jurisdiction over divorce is effectively in the hands of rabbinical courts. The Israel Religious Action Center (IRAC) reports: Israeli society has given the monopoly in matters involving marriage and divorce to the halacha (Jewish law) and the activities of the rabbinical courts in these matters are a multi-disciplinary laboratory that studies various crucial questions. — Israel Religious Action Center (24) The IRAC report validates another from the late Virginia Snitow's group, Women to Women. WTW tells us the divorce courts are not just rabbinical courts — they are Orthodox rabbinical courts. In 1979 Virginia received a call for help from Israeli women for funds to pay the rent on the only shelter for abused women in Israel. "Jewish men don't beat their wives" said the incredulous Snitow. She soon learned how wrong she was … and a group called US/Israel Women to Women was born … Orthodox women face a different problem in Israel. Although it is ostensibly a secular state, Israeli law is interpreted by one stream of Judaism, the Orthodox. Getting a divorce in Israel is at the discretion of the husband. If the husband denies the divorce, then that ends the discussion. These women who are called agunat, are frequently compelled to remain in abusive situations. Some find refuge in shelters where WTW assists them through court proceedings. — WomensNewsOnline.com (27) This from the Jerusalem Post: Although state courts can determine custody and property division, rabbinical courts have sole jurisdiction over divorce for all Jewish Israelis, religious or not. — Jerusalem Post, reprinted by Max Morrison Legal Aid (3) ## Case Histories The plight of wives living under Jewish law is publicized from time to time in Israeli newspapers. Many cases concern women whose husbands refuse to give them a divorce. Here is a case publicized in The Jerusalem Post in 1999. The Jerusalem Post reporter gives the wife the pseudonym "H". Technically, H., 43 and a mother of two, is a mesurevet get, a woman whose husband refuses to give her a divorce, and not an aguna. In modern parlance, aguna has come to include all women who can't get a religious divorce, not just a woman whose husband has disappeared. H.'s husband lives in Israel, but you wouldn't know it from his absence from their court hearings … "My husband controlled everything I did," she said. "If I wanted to buy a sweater, I needed permission, so I stopped buying clothing. Instead, I wore rags. If I needed to have my teeth filled, he said it was too expensive. When I inherited money, he took it and spent it." Unable to endure the daily oppression, she tried to kill herself, first with drugs and vodka, then by lying in the road, hoping to be hit by a car. H.'s attorney warned her that this last act might weigh heavily against her in a custody hearing. But after she was examined by a psychologist the civil court determined that H.'s desperate state was a result of her living conditions. They saw the suicide attempt as a cry for help and awarded her custody. A settlement was negotiated to divide the property. — The Jerusalem Post (3) H.'s rabbinical court advocate presented her case, and for thirteen months she waited for the rabbis to reach a decision. Finally the court issued a declaration stating the man should divorce his wife. The Jerusalem Post tells us the man simply ignored the order, and the wife "waits on." (3) Haaretz carried the story of another woman whose husband refused her a divorce. The woman was eventually helped by attorney Susan Weiss. Weiss tells us about her client's case. In the following, "Y.S." are the reporter's initials. "It was one of the most shocking rulings I'd ever heard. They claimed I hadn't proved that he was unfaithful, although we had a tape of him confessing. The court said the confession was not a statement but a question ("I cheated on my wife?"). They also ruled that even if he had been unfaithful or violent, they couldn't force him to give a get because he had not been forewarned [according to Jewish law, a person can be punished only if he has been warned by two witnesses - Y.S.]. Since we were talking about the High Rabbinical Court, there was no other forum for me to appeal to. The woman petitioned the High Court, but the justices said they couldn't interfere in the decisions of the rabbinical court." — Haaretz.com (4) ## Not a Victory A May 2001 Jerusalem family court decision has been represented as a big breakthrough for women under Jewish law; but to us, it seems more like business as usual. The case involved a husband who refused to give his wife a divorce (Get) after a decade of living apart. The husband had been ordered by a rabbinical court to grant the divorce, but he ignored the order. The wife filed a civil lawsuit arguing that she should be granted damages because the husband was withholding her right to remarry, have children, and determine her own destiny. Judge Ben Zion Greenberger ruled that the wife could claim damages. After the judge's ruling, the husband agreed to give his wife the divorce if she withdrew her damages case against him. (28) This, of course, is judicially blessed extortion. While the husband no doubt deserved rough treatment, the court in no way recognized the wife's standing to originate a divorce, and did not recognize that she was an equal partner in the marriage contract. ## Yet Another Solution Many Jews in Europe, Israel, and the United States are familiar with the equity of modern Gentile divorce laws, whereby either husband or wife can originate the action and the wife is treated equitably. To the modern mind, that aspect of Gentile law appears inarguably superior to halachic law, where women have virtually no rights in divorce. How can Orthodox Judaism maintain its image as the superior religion with answers to all of life's problems? To many people it appears that the rules were made "close to two thousand years ago by people living in cultures radically different from our own," as the ADL's Abraham Foxman puts it. (30) In June, 2003, several Orthodox organizations issued a press release endorsing a new Binding Arbitration Agreement, claiming it "would go a long way toward the goal of eliminating the scourge of iggun [delayed divorce] from our community once and for all." Note the language in the press release: a Talmudic "delayed" divorce is a "scourge." (31) In the "new" Agreement, (32) the husband and wife sign away their rights to initiate a divorce in American courts. Instead, they commit themselves to binding arbitration by the Beth Din of America; the decision of the Beth Din thereafter becomes legally enforceable through the American court system. Recall from The Talmud Lives for Jews that Orthodox Judaism already forbids Jews to seek justice from Gentile (secular) courts. The pre-nuptial agreement makes that religious prohibition a legally enforceable contract. As we might expect, there is no indication that wives have an equal right to initiate a divorce. The Beth Din of America acknowledges that a husband has "the halachic right" to his wife's earnings (see Talmud Daughters Become Talmud Wives), but demands that the husband give up that right and pay the wife $150 should disputes between them result in their living separately (Section VII). Arguably, this arrangement would continue in perpetuity, until he gave his wife the Get, granting the divorce. Here is the making of legally blessed extortion, a la Justice Greenberger (see "Not a Victory," above) — for poor husbands. On the other hand, for many rich Jewish husbands, $150 per day ($54,750 per year) would be a trifle. An rich unwilling husband could comfortably forestall forever the divorce, and the resultant division of property. What of the substantive matters concerning sufficiency of grounds for a divorce? Halacha allows a man to divorce his wife without kethubah if her breasts are too far apart, if she has bad breath or a mole, or if she is a "screamer," etc. Indeed, if American civil law were to be used, there would be no purpose in using halachah. Once she signs the Binding Arbitration Agreement, the American Jewish woman has no protection against halachah. It's hard to see how the new Beth Din of America Binding Arbitration Agreement is a great leap forward. ## Coming Soon to Your Town Let us also reflect that in November 2002, three Supreme Court judges, including the putative feminist Ruth Bader Ginsburg, attended a Kosher dinner in the Supreme Court Building to celebrate the establishment of the National Institute for Judaic Law. The purpose of the Institute is to teach Talmud-based law in the US, and to integrate Talmud-based law into US society. One does not invite Supreme court judges for dinner to celebrate a purely academic curiosity. Law is ultimately useless unless it is enforceable. The Supreme Court judges were invited to dinner because of the office they hold and the power they wield over the American judicial system. Washington attorney Alyza Lewin, daughter of the famous Orthodox advocate, Nathan Lewin, is helping to set up the Institute. She says, "The idea is to make Jewish law more accessible to everyone." But Jewish law is already accessible to those who wish to live by it voluntarily; Lewin's target is clearly those who have not yet embraced Talmud law, and for whom Talmud law must be made mandatory. Lewin looks forward to the enforcement of Jewish law on everyone, and anticipates the Supreme Court will help to achieve this goal. The Institute will not be injecting Talmud-based law into Rabbinical courts (which already have it), but into Gentile courts. If the Orthodox Jewish advocates have their way, both Jewish and Gentile courts will be operating according to Talmud law. America Is Rapidly Becoming Talmudized In 1991, the US Congress declared the Talmudic Noahide Laws to be the basis "upon which our great Nation was founded" (see America's New Government Church). Under Noahide Law regulations, idolaters (which includes Christians by definition) are put to death. In 1999, the Supreme Court agreed to consider an amicus brief based wholly on Talmudic law (see Sentence and Execution). In November 2002, the American Orthodox Jewish community held a kosher dinner in the Supreme Court building to celebrate the establishment of the National Institute for Judaic Law. (6) The dinner was attended by 200 people, including three Supreme Court Justices. The purpose of the Institute is to introduce Talmudic laws into the US legal system and law schools. It is thus the clear civic duty of every American to become intimately acquainted with the Talmud. Read articles at: America's New Government Church: http://www.come-and-hear.com/editor/america_1.html Death Penalty: http://www.come-and-hear.com/editor/capunish_1.html Kosher Dinner: http://www.come-and-hear.com/editor/cp-jp-11-09-2002 and http://www.come-and-hear.com/editor/cp-jw-01-08-03 ## God vs. Maimonides In his "Foreword" to the Seder Nashim, Rabbi Dr. Hertz tells us that Jewish divorce laws have changed for the better since Talmud times: The uniform aim of the Rabbis throughout the succeeding centuries was to develop the law in the direction of greater equality between the man and the woman. At last, in the year 1000, Rabbenu Gershom decreed that the wife, unless she was unfaithful, could not be divorced except of her free will. Maimonides went even further: 'If a woman says, "My husband is repulsive to me, and I cannot live with him," the husband is compelled to divorce her, because she is not like a captive woman that she should be forced to consort with a man whom she hates.' — Rabbi Dr. Hertz (2) But wait! We have been told the Talmud is the word of God, Oral Law handed down by God through Moses. Now Rabbi Dr. Hertz tells us Gershom and Maimonides improved on God's system, developing "law in the direction of greater equality between the man and the woman." Maimonides' suggestion — that if a woman finds her husband "repulsive," she can divorce him — sounds like divorce on demand to us. Were Gershom and Maimonides God made flesh? Or were they just human beings, altering God's blueprint? If Talmud law can be rightly set aside, superseded, or improved by man-made law, Talmud law is not Divine. Talmud law must be in fact just man-made law. It has no claims to special consideration, and should be compared on its merits with other man-made law. ## Women's Rytes? Where are the Jewish feminists as all of this unfolds? In January 2000, the American Jewish Committee (AJC) sponsored Dialogue 2000: 'Woman as Jew, Jew as Woman: Taking Stock at the Millennium' (17) in Israel. As part of the symposium, leading American and Israeli feminists received the Women Who Made a Difference Award. The awards were made on January 26 in the Israeli parliament, the Knesset, in Jerusalem. The American women honored were: Bella Abzug, former member of the United States Congress (In Memoriam) Leona Chanin, Jewish communal leader Betty Friedan, Author, The Feminine Mystique; Founder, National Organization for Women Ruth Bader Ginsburg, Justice, United States Supreme Court Blu Greenberg, Orthodox feminist author and lecturer Elizabeth Holtzman, former member of the United States Congress Francine Klagsbrun, author and lecturer Jacqueline Levine, Jewish communal leader Letty Cottin Pogrebin, Author, Deborah, Golda and Me Susan Weidman Schneider, Founder, Lilith Virginia Snitow, Founder, U.S./Israel Women to Women We were not able to find evidence that any of these women ever publicly took issue with the Talmud laws on women. How could women so self-consciously Jewish be so incurious about Jewish law? Consider also the "Seder Sisters." The Seder Sisterhood was established in 1976 by Gloria Steinem and a number of other Jewish feminists. (16) The women designed their own Passover celebration, preserving the traditional form, substituting their own words and legends. In 2000, the Jerusalem Post issued a Women's Seder supplement. In part, it said: In the traditional Haggada, women are not mentioned, so the women's Seders use specially written Haggadot that focus on the role of Jewish women in the Exodus and in Jewish history, and adapt rituals to be specifically meaningful to women. In this Exodus tale, Miriam, the sister of Moses, is more significant than her brother. Special versions of "Dayenu" address women's concerns. The ritual four cups of wine honor four Jewish women. In lieu of the questions from the four sons, there are questions from four daughters. And the plagues, from which women are spared, include poverty, homophobia, infertility, breast cancer, domestic violence, and recalcitrant husbands who refuse to give their wives a religious divorce. Instead of a cup for Elijah, each Seder table features Miriam's cup in recognition of Miriam and her well. Miriam is the "symbol of our redemption," says the Bergen Haggada, and her cup "can also anticipate the time when all people will be cherished as equals, a time when no one shall oppress another." — Jerusalem Post (18) The Seder Sisters would have served Jewish women better by directing attention to the Talmud. As Rabbi Rodkinson writes under the editorship of Rabbi Dr. I. M. Wise: … the Talmud is one of the wonders of the world … It still dominates the minds of a whole people, who venerate its contents as divine truth … — Rabbi Michael L. Rodkinson (23) (emphasis added) One does not have to come from an Orthodox Jewish background to be affected by the Talmud. Rabbi Dr. I. M. Wise was a pioneer of Reform Judaism and founder of three of its greatest institutions. Since he edited Rabbi Rodkinson's Talmud, it is very likely he shared Rabbi Rodkinson's opinion of the importance of the Talmud. The Universal Jewish Encyclopedia tells us: As a repository of the Oral Law, the Talmud's authority is regarded as divine by Orthodox Jews, and hence it is held to be binding and immutable. Conservative and Reform Jews, however, do not recognize the absolute binding power of the Talmud, although they acknowledge the great part it has played in determining Jewish religious ideas and observances. — Herschel Revel, for The Universal Jewish Encyclopedia (22) (emphasis added) The Bavli [Babylonian Talmud] has formed the definitive statement of Judaism from the time of its closure to the present day. — Rabbi Dr. Jacob Neusner (21) (emphasis added) If the Bible is the cornerstone of Judaism, then the Talmud is the central pillar, soaring up from the foundations and supporting the entire spiritual and intellectual edifice. In many ways the Talmud is the most important book in Jewish culture, the backbone of creativity and of national life. No other work has had a comparable influence on the theory and practice of Jewish life, shaping spiritual content and serving as a guide to conduct. — Rabbi Adin Steinsaltz. (19) (emphasis added) So … Jews from across the spectrum acknowledge the great part the Talmud plays in determining Jewish culture. Could Jewish women who feel badly used by men be reacting to their own culture and upbringing? Jewish feminists are also silent. Social reformers should select the right target. If the tire is flat, don't kick the cat. Those who propose to reform society should identify the source of the doctrines they oppose. ## Conclusion Consider what we now know about Talmud law on women. Review Sex with Children by Talmud Rules, Talmud Laws of Menstruation, Jewish Harems in Talmud Law, Really Really Kosher Sex, and Talmud Daughters Become Talmud Wives. 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1. Talmud Daughters Become Talmud Wives can be found at http://www.come-and-hear.com/editor/america_6.html
2. Babylonian Talmud, "Foreword by the Very Rev. the Chief Rabbi," page xix available at http://www.come-and-hear.com/talmud/nashim_h.html#xix
3. "The Happy Aguna," The Jerusalem Post, December 24, 1999, republished by Max Morrison Legal Aid http://www.letalid.org.il/happy.htm cached at http://www.come-and-hear.com/editor/agunot/legalaid9
   Other cached stories of the Agunot women in Israel:
   - Haaretz.com: Give and take - and finally, get
   - Jerusalem Post: 'Agunot' protest for the right to get a get
   - The Max Morrison Legal Aid Center: Can a husband retroactively void a get which was given in the rabbinical court, in front of the rabbis, on grounds of duress?
   - The Max Morrison Legal Aid Center: A dramatization raises funds for Advocates to help women free themselves from bad marriages.
   - The Max Morrison Legal Aid Center: "HaDin VeHadayan" - the Law and it's Decisor
   - The Max Morrison Legal Aid Center: Jerusalem Family Court Case 00/3950
   - The Max Morrison Legal Aid Center: The Jerusalem Report: Sue the....
   - The Max Morrison Legal Aid Center: Newsflash, October 2002: Ohr Torah Stone's Legal Aid Center and Hotline has just wrapped up a case that had been mired in the courts for over seven years
   - The Max Morrison Legal Aid Center: No Exit: Jerusalem organizations are working to ease the plight of "agunot", women denied divorce.
   - The Max Morrison Legal Aid Center: To Break the Chains: A dramatization raises funds for Advocates to help women free themselves from bad marriages
   - The Max Morrison Legal Aid Center: YAD L'ISHA: Legal Aid Center and Hotline for Women
   - Midreshet Lindenbaum: Agunot Allowed for the First Time to Sue Husbands for Damages in Israel's Civil Courts
   - Midreshet Lindenbaum: "The Happy Aguna", by Barbara Sofer
   - OHR Torah Stone: A New Chapter of Freedom
   - OHR Torah Stone: Landmark Legal Decision Promises to Aid Agunot
   - OHR Torah Stone: Looking Around: The Esthers among us
   - OHR Torah Stone: Women Advocates Push the Halachic Envelope
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   Also: "Jewish Law Comes to D.C.," The Jewish Week, January 8, 2003, http://www.thejewishweek.com/news/newscontent.php3?artid=7074 cached as http://www.come-and-hear.com/editor/cp-jw-01-08-03
7. "Introduction," by Rabbi Dr. H. Freedman, Tractate Kiddushin, page vi (not available at Come and Hear™)
8. "What Do Reform Jews Believe? What Do Reform Jews Do?," adapted from the pamphlet entitled "What We Believe... What We Do..." prepared in 1993 by CCAR President Rabbi Simeon J. Maslin, What Is Reform Judaism: http://rj.org/rj.shtml cached at http://www.come-and-hear.com/editor/br-reformj
9. "Introduction," Tractate Kethuboth, by Rev. Dr. Israel W. Slotki, page xi available at http://www.come-and-hear.com/kethuboth/index.html#xi
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11. "Gimme a Kiss," Jewish Film Festival, http://www.sfjff.org/cgi-bin/sfjff_resource.pl?titleID=1239
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15. "Meeting a Diversified America," Shma.com, January 2001, http://shma.com/jan01/schneider.htm
16. According to The Flummery Digest (http://www.praxagora.com/sierra/flum/9306.htm), the founding membership of the Seder Sisterhood includes:
    - Gloria Steinem
    - Letty Cottin Pogrebin
    - E.M. Broner
    - Bella Abzug
    - Phyllis Cheslar
    - Bea Kreloff
    - Edith Isaac Rose
    - Michelle Landsberg
    - Grace Paley
    - Lilly Rivlin
17. "Jewish Feminists to be Honored at Dialogue 2000," Office of Public Relations, American Jewish Congress http://ajcongress.org/pages/RELS2000/JAN_2000/jan00_01.htm cached at http://www.come-and-hear.com/editor/ajc-01-10-2000
18. "Pessah Supplement," Jerusalem Post, 2000 A.D., http://info.jpost.com/2000/Supplements/Pessah/w1.html cached at http://www.come-and-hear.com/editor/na-jp-2000-supplement
19. The Essential Talmud, page 3
20. Babylonian Talmud, "Introduction," Tractate Gittin, page xv available at http://www.come-and-hear.com/gittin/index.html#xv
21. Rabbi Dr. Jacob Neusner, quoted by Norman F. Cantor, The Sacred Chain (A History of the Jews), page 112
22. Herschel Revel, Librarian of the Isaac Elchanan Theological Seminary, New York, writing for The Universal Jewish Encyclopedia, s.v. "Talmud," Volume 10, page 165
23. "Introduction," The History Of The Talmud, Vol. I, page 1 available at http://www.come-and-hear.com/talmud/rodkinson_1.html#p1
24. "The Silence of the Modern Orthodox," by David Gliksberg, Israel Religious Action Center, July 3, 2001, http://www.irac.org/article_e.asp?artid=449 http://www.come-and-hear.com/editor/na-irac-07-03-01
25. "Orthodox group gains assistance to help 'chained' wives," Jewish Bulletin of Northern California, May 17, 2002, from the Jewish Telegraphic Agency http://jewishsf.com/bk020517/us14a.shtml cached at http://www.come-and-hear.com/editor/na-jta-05-17-02
26. "Repairing the World: Social justice is a righteous endeavor, but it is not the sum total of Judaism," Moment, http://momentmag.com/columnists/index1.html
27. "Feminism Israel Style," WomensNewsOnline.com, http://www.usisraelwomen.org/newSite/intheNews.html cached at http://www.come-and-hear.com/editor/na-usisrael-snitow
28. "Agunot Allowed for the First Time to Sue Husbands for Damages in Israel's Civil Courts," Midreshet Lindenbaum, February 2001, http://www.lind.org.il/features/precedent.htm cached at http://www.come-and-hear.com/editor/agunot/lind2/index.html
29. Jews often call the Talmud "the Torah." According to many Rabbinical experts, the Talmud is the Word of God, the basic book of Jewish law, and the foundation of Jewish culture. See What Come-and-Hear™ Is About, Critical Words of Talmud Study, and More Critical Words of Talmud Study at http://www.come-and-hear.com/editor/about.html http://www.come-and-hear.com/editor/critwords_1.html and http://www.come-and-hear.com/editor/critwords_2.html respectively.
30. "The Talmud in Anti-Semitic Polemics," Anti-Defamation League, February, 2003, page 3 http://www.adl.org/presrele/asus%5F12/the_talmud.pdf cached at http://www.come-and-hear.com/supplement/adl-talmud.pdf
31. "The Beth Din of America, the Rabbinical Council of America, and the Orthodox Caucus Announce the Release of a Revised Prenuptial Agreement," Orthodox Union, June 17, 2003, http://ou.org/oupr/2003/prenup63.htm cached at http://www.come-and-hear.com/editor/na-ou-prenup/
32. "The Beth Din of America Binding Arbitration Agreement," http://www.orthodoxcaucus.org/prenup/PNA_2003.pdf cached at http://www.come-and-hear.com/editor/na-ou-prenup/prenup.pdf

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